I Asked the Coolest People I Know: What Makes an It-Girl Lip Balm?


Beauty has always been a means for connection, but there’s one universal icebreaker that ties us all: What lip balm are you using? It’s no secret that the lip market is capital-N noisy. The categories are increasingly blurred, but still, every time I see a chic individual glide a glossy situation across their pout, I want to know what tint they deem worthy—and why. After all, lip balms easily reflect the personality (and oftentimes the aesthetic) of the wearer given the fact that many don’t leave home without one or two stalwart formulas. These days, it can feel like you’re only as cool as the mysterious, sparkling tube poking out of your jacket pocket or wedged inside a branded phone case. (Yep, you know the one.)

Will I ever stop complimenting strangers on their lip combos? Certainly not, but I did ask stylish experts about the It-girl balms they hold dear and what exactly makes them tick. After cross-referencing my conversations (beauty journalism, folks!), I landed on this criteria—plus 15 viral balms truly worth their salt—below.

What makes a cult-favorite lip balm?

Let’s face it: Gourmand fragrances are having a moment (hell, a year), and while we’ve seen more elevated iterations as of late, edible notes have never been buzzier. Think grown-up marshmallow over vanilla. It only makes sense that we’d see that carry over to the lip category, as lip balm is also a sensory experience. No, you don’t actually ingest your lip product, but you do experience traces of flavor the same way you might catch a whiff of perfume on your sleeve.

Be it birthday cake, hot cocoa, berry crumble, or rich espresso, a sweet flavor can feel quite comforting, evoking positive memories associated with indulgent moments. So you reach for it again and again… and again. As Marianna Hewitt, co-founder of Summer Fridays declares, “when something becomes a part of your daily routine, that’s when it starts to feel like a favorite.”

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Lauren Gores Ireland, co-founder of Summer Fridays, says that a cult lip balm must have the “perfect mix of form and function.” It needs a stellar formula as well as a smooth application, a nonsticky finish, and thoughtful, elevated packaging. Bonus points if said packaging includes some sort of accessory component, such as a phone case (hi, Rhode) or kitschy keychain. These extra elements help a lip balm stand out in an oversaturated market and, quite literally, inside an overcrowded tote.

“We added a built-in ring for charms (coming soon!) so you can attach it to your keys, lanyard, or bag because no one wants to dig through their bag for a lost lip balm,” Priscilla Tsai, founder of Cocokind, previously told WWW about the brand’s new tinted balms. It does help that many of these accessories are limited edition, like the Summer Fridays Birthday Cake Keychain, or have amassed wait lists in the thousands, like Rhode’s Lip Case. Scarcity sells—much to the horror of my monthly credit card bill.

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“To me, a culty lip tint is one that turns heads, whether someone sees it in person or on your Instagram story and immediately thinks, ‘What does she know that I don’t?'” poses beauty editor Iman Balagam. A chic aesthetic—be it sophisticated packaging, a sleek metal applicator, or a curated social presence—is a huge part of constructing that je ne sais quoi. After all, “[lip balms] are a great way to treat yourself to a little piece of luxury,” Sephora Beauty Director Helen Phillips Dagdag shares. Brands that lean into a “treat yourself” aesthetic (sometimes with a sweet flavor to match) do tend to prove their shelf appeal.